I used to have a large picture of a guy in the middle of a light house with waves crashing all around him as he stood calmly by the door. For many years during our infertility journey and in life in general, I was not that guy. I would have been the dude shutting the… Continue Reading
Monthly Archives: June 2013
If It Sounds Too Good To Be True
Having been in the mortgage industry that past 20 years I’m never really amazed when I see some new gimmick offered that sounds too good to be true. After talking a customer off the gimmick ledge today (a bank offering cash back if my client got a mortgage through the bank–yeah–I don’t think so) I… Continue Reading
Miracles Come in Cans
Miracles come in cans. I had never heard that expression until today. It was part of a Joyce Meyer sermon and the basic idea is that every miracle that ultimately comes into our lives has to start with a ‘can’. We had to open a lot of cans before our last IVF. I can find… Continue Reading
It’s Okay to Just Have Some Fun
Lisa says I never want to have fun anymore. I’m always so serious, and working my plan and planning my work. It is true. I’m not sure if it’s just an ‘in your forties’ thing, or it’s just me, but I have a hard time just letting go enough to escape into a movie, or… Continue Reading
The Impossible Is Possible
I came across a song that has always reminded me of our infertility journey. Here are the lyrics to “The Impossible”, for anybody who is in that place where it all seems like it’s not gonna ever get better. Have a great Friday…. THE IMPOSSIBLE My dad chased monsters from the dark He checked underneath… Continue Reading