It will be easy after multiple failures during cycles to feel paralyzed.
You don’t know which way to go.
It is easy to freeze up.
So many couples lost any forward momentum because they stopped moving at all during our infertility support group days.
It happened to me briefly after our GFT cycle failed.
I was so convinced by all the symptoms Lisa had, the swelling in her abdomen, the hateful comments to me when I was near her, that I was experiencing the first signs of early pregnancy.
Nope.
Zero.
Zilch.
Nada.
I froze up. I didn’t know what to do next, and every time Lisa wanted to talk about it, I could barely form words.
Just keep going forward.
If you’re going through hell–keep on moving.
You might get out before the devil even knows you’re there.
(yes–borrowing from a country tune there…)