I modified this from my Blue Mountain Calendar to be more infertility oriented–credit goes to Susan Polis Schutz for the original thoughts, words and structure.
You must choose your goals carefully in your infertility journey
Know what you want
and what you do not want
Be critical of the facts about your fertility challenges,
but search inside yourself for your own truth
Choose a doctor or clinic that makes you feel welcomed and safe,
but be prepared to question anything that doesn’t seem right
Believe that this pursuit if worth everything you are physically and mentally
Be honest with people
help them understand what you are going through if you can
but don’t depend on anyone
to make your life easy
or happy for you
Only you can do that for yourself
Strive to achieve your parenthood with all your heart
Find happiness in everything you do–even the things that haven’t resulted in a positive beta
Love with your entire being
Make a triumph
of every aspect of your journey
knowing that in your life
You deserve the
best life has to offer